Divorce Attorney: 6 New Year’s Resolutions for Divorced Parents

The New Year is a great time to reflect on where we are and where we are going. As we begin to make our way through 2020, we are not only embarking on a new year but also a new decade, so what better time is there to make a new beginning with some resolutions? As a divorce attorney, I see a lot of potential for divorced parents to make a fresh, healthy start. Don’t know where to begin?

Here are six New Year’s resolutions that divorced parents might find helpful.

Actively Work on Being a Good Co-Parent

Children whose parents are divorced thrive better when both of their parents are on the same page. When you choose to co-parent your child with your ex-spouse, you are making a choice that will greatly benefit your children. Furthermore, you don’t have to have a good co-parent to be a good co-parent. In stressful situations where the tension is high, make the decision to take the high road, even if your co-parent chooses the opposite.

Put Your Children’s Needs First

If you and your ex-spouse are still not on the best of terms with each other, it can be difficult to put your children’s needs ahead of your own. The truth is you probably would like nothing more than to forget your ex ever existed. But you can’t. Your children need both of you now more than ever, so do what you can to get along with their other parent.

But Don’t Forget to Practice Self-Care When Necessary

It can be easy to forget to take care of yourself after a divorce, but you need to so that you can be healthy and strong for your children. Do what you have to do to make sure that you are taking care of both your physical and mental health.

Complete Your Divorce This Year

Maybe you haven’t completed your divorce yet, hoping for reconciliation or perhaps to make things difficult for your ex-spouse. If this is you and you know deep down that things are over for your marriage, it’s time to stop dragging things out. The divorce process can be traumatizing for everyone involved, so the quicker you get it over with, the sooner you can begin the healing process.

Resolve to Be More Consistent

When children experience a drastic change like divorce, they need consistency and stability more than ever. Familiarity is the key to providing them with the comfort they need to get through it.

Don’t Be Afraid to Ask for Help

You and your children are going through a difficult time. Sure, lots of people have dealt with divorce before you, but that doesn’t make it any easier. Lean on your familial and social connections if you need help. Your network will be there for you when you are in need.

Talk to a Divorce Attorney Who Gets Results

Speaking of help, don’t be afraid to reach out to me if you want advice on any family law matters. I will work with you to reach the best outcome possible, no matter what your situation or needs are.

About the Author: Helena Y. Farber is a Divorce attorney in Aventura, Florida, whose practice is concentrated in the areas of divorce and family law. She can be reached at (305) 520-9205 or via email at hyf@farberlawpa.com.

Disclaimer: The attorney makes this Blog available for educational purposes only as well as to give you general information and a general understanding of the law, not to provide specific legal advice. By using this blog site, you understand that there is no attorney-client relationship between you and the Blog. The Blog should not be used as a substitute for competent legal advice from a licensed professional attorney in your state.

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