Divorce is a painful and emotional experience that many people go through, and as Ali Wong’s divorce can tell you, celebrities are no exception. The comedian and actress, best known for her hilarious stand-up specials and hit Netflix show Always Be My Maybe, announced last year that she and her husband Justin Hakuta were getting a divorce after nearly a decade of marriage. While the news may have been disheartening for fans who have grown to love the couple’s dynamic, married couples can learn a few important takeaways from their experience.
Why Did Ali Wong Get Divorced from Justin Hakuta
After eight years of marriage, Ali Wong and her husband, Justin Hakuta, decided to call it quits. But what could have led to the end of their seemingly rock-solid relationship?
According to sources close to the couple, the split is amicable, and they plan to continue co-parenting their two daughters, Mari and Nikki, with love and mutual respect. Wong’s representative confirmed the news to PEOPLE, leaving fans wondering what could have gone wrong.
The couple first met at a friend’s wedding reception in 2010, where Hakuta was a Fulbright scholar and a student at Harvard Business School. Wong was immediately smitten and even joked about “trapping” her husband during her Netflix stand-up special, Baby Cobra. However, the initial attraction and humor weren’t enough to keep their marriage intact.
A Few Lessons We Can Learn from the Ali Wong Divorce
Amicable Divorce Is Best for the Children
Ali Wong and Justin Hakuta’s divorce is a positive example of how co-parenting can succeed, even after a split. Despite the end of their marriage, they have maintained a cordial relationship and put their children’s welfare first. From morning walks to attending therapy sessions, they have shown a commitment to their children’s happiness and health.
Ali Wong has been transparent about their therapy sessions, acknowledging that the process of transitioning from a couple to co-parents is not always smooth sailing. However, they have diligently worked to minimize any negative impact on their children. This highlights the importance of considering the children’s emotional well-being during and after divorce.
Consulting a divorce attorney and co-parenting therapist can assist in creating a plan that works for both parents and prioritizes the children’s needs. The objective is to move forward in a way that minimizes disruption and ensures that the children are not adversely affected by the divorce.
Being Forced to Sign a Prenup Can Be a Blessing in Disguise
In her 2018 special, Hard Knock Wife, Ali Wong joked about the prenuptial agreement she signed before getting married and how it turned out to be a blessing in disguise. She talked about how the document scared her but also motivated her to make her own money and build her career.
In reality, having a prenuptial agreement can be crucial, especially when one party has substantial assets and income before the marriage. In Ali Wong’s case, the prenuptial agreement possibly outlined the apportionment of spousal support in the event of a divorce, protecting her husband’s income and assets. Without it, California’s community property laws would have taken precedence, entitling both parties to 50% of community assets accumulated during the marriage, regardless of who earned them.
It is also important to note that prenuptial agreements cannot itemize child support, and child custody agreements are subject to change based on the court’s jurisdiction over the children. However, having a prenuptial agreement in place can provide a clear framework for dividing assets and support in the event of a divorce, taking some of the emotional and financial stress out of an already difficult situation.
In the end, Ali Wong’s experience shows that being forced to sign a prenuptial agreement may not be so bad after all. It can motivate individuals to build their own careers and assets and provide a clear framework for asset division and support in the event of a divorce, ultimately protecting both parties involved.
Need Help With A Prenuptial Or Postnuptial Agreement?
If you are in need of legal assistance with a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement, look no further than Farber Law PA. Contact us today at 305-520-9205 to schedule a consultation and discuss your options. As Ali Wong herself noted, having a prenup in place can be a blessing in disguise, providing clarity and protection in the event of a divorce. In addition, our experienced attorneys can guide you through the process and help you create an agreement that meets your specific needs and goals.
About the Author: Helena Y. Farber is an attorney in Aventura, Florida, whose practice is concentrated on divorce and family law. She can be reached at (305) 520-9205 or via email at hyf@farberlawpa.com. Disclaimer: This blog is provided solely for educational reasons and to provide you with general information and a general grasp of the law, not to provide particular legal advice. By using this blog site, you acknowledge that you and the blog do not have an attorney-client relationship. The Blog is not intended to replace competent legal counsel from a certified professional attorney in your state.